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« on: March 08, 2008, 12:34:46 PM » |
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Hey folks, Just wanted to give you the news, DQ and I have gone our seperate ways. I split with her yesterday, and it is a final thing. We ended it very mature and I will miss her, but life will be better now for me. I can give you the details as of how she forced me to do this, and it will all make sense, later though. Just thought I'd keep you all up to date. Thanks for everything guys and gals. ps, woodard, jack, mnb, queen, this is the SECOND time you get to see me split huh? First it was the wifey who I was with 5 yrs and now DQ of 3+ yrs  |
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« Reply #1 on: March 08, 2008, 04:26:28 PM » |
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I'm sure you've done it for the best for both of you. Hope it works out well boss.
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« Reply #2 on: March 08, 2008, 05:52:35 PM » |
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Hey boss,
I'm sorry to hear that. Sometimes people are put in our lives for us to realize things about ourselves and after figuring things out they are on their way. Goodluck Sir!
Theo
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« Reply #3 on: March 09, 2008, 06:38:10 AM » |
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Hey boss,
I'm sorry to hear that. Sometimes people are put in our lives for us to realize things about ourselves and after figuring things out they are on their way. Goodluck Sir!
Theo
Very well said, and I have had more than one long term relationship that proves your point. If it weren't for those other relationships though I would have never met QOD nor would I appreciate her the way I do. Life is about learning lessons and personal growth, so take from this relationship HC the lessons you need to move ahead in your life and then move on. Good luck and keep us posted on how you're doing HC. |
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« Reply #4 on: March 09, 2008, 12:08:16 PM » |
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Mature is good...
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« Reply #5 on: March 09, 2008, 06:04:06 PM » |
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These types of losses are inevitable in life. They can take may forms, and they strengthen us.
Still hurts like hell, though. I wish you both the best and a speedy return to happy.
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« Reply #6 on: March 10, 2008, 10:45:43 AM » |
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Dang bro sorry to hear that. 3+ years is a lot of time and energy with someone. I wish you both the best....
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« Reply #7 on: March 11, 2008, 07:48:00 PM » |
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i havent been on in awhile, had a few "hiccups" in my life as well....
all things happen for a reason Bruce, time heals all....
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« Reply #8 on: March 12, 2008, 07:31:59 PM » |
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Well.... that is some bad news to hear. I hope all works out well for you both.  |
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« Reply #9 on: March 13, 2008, 12:30:23 AM » |
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Well, things are going good. Kinda rough for the first few days, but definately getting better now. I have realized that I am much better off now. I am going to just focus on my business and training. I screwed up my preperation for the shows I was going to do this first half of the year, so I may try to shoot for a couple shows at the end of this year, and try to put back on the weight I lost with all the stress.
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« Reply #10 on: March 13, 2008, 10:34:06 AM » |
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I'm glad to hear that things are getting better for ya boss. Now I know that this is tough to go through for you, but I'm also wondering how DQ is doing? As she was a part of our little hardcore world as well.
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« Reply #11 on: March 13, 2008, 02:23:13 PM » |
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yeah, DQ is fine. Actually happy as a clam. She is pursuing a career as a patrol officer, and this really changed her attitude and the way she treated me. She was exposed to some new friends that fed her a line of shit basically telling her not to be with me if she wanted to be serious about this and whatnot. Unfortunately the woman dq is idolizing (and mimicing and acting like now) is not the most mature and ideal role model, but she latched onto DQ as her new best friend, and they have been together almost every day. Strange how this lady didnt have a "best" friend before DQ, and as a new recruit DQ is fresh and moldable to be her bestest buddy. It is actually a little sad when I look over at DQ and see her do the same laugh and somewhat retarded talking that her new best friend does.
Oh well, it is something that feels like a burden lifted off my chest, and I know it is a much better thing now. I know there is a woman out there that will treat me good and not throw me to the back burner over a job and friend.
HC
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« Reply #12 on: March 13, 2008, 07:03:11 PM » |
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yeah, DQ is fine. Actually happy as a clam. She is pursuing a career as a patrol officer, and this really changed her attitude and the way she treated me. She was exposed to some new friends that fed her a line of shit basically telling her not to be with me if she wanted to be serious about this and whatnot. Unfortunately the woman dq is idolizing (and mimicing and acting like now) is not the most mature and ideal role model, but she latched onto DQ as her new best friend, and they have been together almost every day. Strange how this lady didnt have a "best" friend before DQ, and as a new recruit DQ is fresh and moldable to be her bestest buddy. It is actually a little sad when I look over at DQ and see her do the same laugh and somewhat retarded talking that her new best friend does.
Oh well, it is something that feels like a burden lifted off my chest, and I know it is a much better thing now. I know there is a woman out there that will treat me good and not throw me to the back burner over a job and friend.
HC
That's to bad as I thought DQ was stronger than that (as well as more mature!). Oh well she'll learn soon enough that a very high percentage of those in law enforcement can be somewhat "weird" to say the least as well as idealistic. I can't believe that she would dump a relationship of 3+ years based on what some people she hardly knows think...... Just as well you move on if this is the type of person she's become, but I'm glad (I guess) that DQ is happy with her new life. |
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« Reply #13 on: March 14, 2008, 09:53:28 AM » |
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That's really sad there brother. It is really tough to see an otherwise good person transform into someone for the worse. Especially when you have committed that much time. I guess if she was that easily influenced it is probably for the best. Keep your chin up Big Dog. You'll find somebody that's right! I wish DQ the best and hope she finds/found what she's looking for.
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« Reply #14 on: March 21, 2008, 04:34:07 PM » |
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Ah wow - I wondered how you two were doing. I figured that the end would come when you got a wedding/baby ultimatum, which I could see coming for some time now.
I'm sorry for the pain but am sure that its best for both.
By the way - "hey", its been awhile.
Cliff
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